How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 21.06.2025 09:47
Do not set goals—set systems.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
What is unattractive about a nice guy? Why do some women don’t choose nice guys?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Making more friends is a goal.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Is it true that LGB should drop T?
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Procrastinates a lot.
Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
My boyfriend won’t tell me his past and it hurts me so I broke up with him what do I do?
Does not procrastinate.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
What is your analysis of Walter White from Breaking Bad?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
That's it for today.
Ask yourself:
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How do you identify a woman player?
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
What is your opinion about homosexuality? Do you think that it is by nature or a choice?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
What I need from you?
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Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.